
This Oreo Better Than Sex Cake is pure chocolate indulgence layered into a single dish. Each piece is a cloud of rich devil’s food cake, silky chocolate pudding frosting, and a generous crown of crushed Oreos on top. If you need an easy but show-stopping dessert for birthdays holidays or just a weeknight treat this cake always delivers.
I remember bringing this to a picnic and there was not a crumb left It quickly replaced my old favorite and now my niece asks for it every year on her birthday
Ingredients
- Devils food cake mix: delivers intensely chocolatey flavor while keeping it simple Look for a high quality mix for the best texture
- Eggs, vegetable oil and water: see your box for exact amounts for structure and moisture Fresh eggs and a good brand of oil do make a difference
- Sweetened condensed milk: brings luscious richness Make sure you grab condensed not evaporated milk
- Chocolate syrup: for a double chocolate punch Hersheys is classic but any thick pourable syrup works
- Whole milk: adds creamy texture Use the freshest milk you can
- Instant chocolate pudding mix: gives the frosting its cloudlike texture Always use instant type for this recipe
- Whipped topping (brand name is Cool Whip): adds fluffiness Make sure to thaw fully so it blends smoothly
- Oreo cookies: bring the magic Use the original kind and crush just before topping for max crunch Choose a fresh unopened package so they taste crisp
Step-by-Step Instructions
- Bake the Cake:
- Prepare and bake devils food cake per directions on the back of the box Use the recommended amount of eggs oil and water for your mix Bake in a greased rectangular pan until a toothpick comes out clean
- Mix Chocolate Soak:
- While cake bakes whisk sweetened condensed milk and chocolate syrup in a small bowl until completely smooth
- Poke and Soak:
- Right when the cake comes out of the oven poke holes all over the top with a fork Make the holes close together so the soak can really get in Gently pour chocolate soak over warm cake spreading with a spatula to help it absorb Try not to rush this step because you want the syrup to seep into the holes
- Cool and Make Frosting:
- Let the cake cool at room temperature In a bowl whisk whole milk and instant pudding mix until no lumps remain Add chocolate syrup and whisk again Fold in whipped topping slowly until combined The frosting may look slightly rippled but that is perfect
- Frost and Chill:
- Spread all of the frosting over the cooled soaked cake right up to the edges Cover with plastic wrap and chill for at least six hours Longer gets you a more set texture and richer flavor
- Top with Oreos and Serve:
- Right before serving crush Oreo cookies and scatter generously over the cake If you love a little extra drizzle pour chocolate syrup over each piece before serving

My favorite moment is crushing the cookies with my kids right before serving It gets messy but those crumbly fresh Oreos on top are truly the best part Sometimes we sneak in different flavors for fun
Storage Tips
Store the cake covered in the fridge for up to one week If you want to keep it longer freeze the whole cake or individual slices tightly wrapped for up to three months Just know the Oreos will soften in the fridge so if you like them crunchy add them the day you serve
Ingredient Substitutions
Swap devils food for any chocolate cake mix you love Use chocolate fudge pudding for an even richer taste If you prefer a different cookie try thin mints or peanut butter sandwich cookies for a twist And for the topping light whipped topping works too
Serving Suggestions
Scoop into bowls when serving a crowd so you get all the gooey layers in every bite For special occasions top with a dollop of extra whipped topping and a few halved Oreos I have even drizzled caramel over the top for a fun change

Cultural Context
The Better Than Sex Cake is an American potluck classic since the 1980s and this Oreo version is a playful riff Most families put their own spin on it but the key is always a rich chocolate base and an overthetop topping Oreos just make it even more irresistible
Common Recipe Questions
- → How should this cake be served?
This dessert is best enjoyed chilled to keep the whipped topping firm and flavors balanced.
- → What are some alternative toppings?
Try using chopped chocolate bars, peppermint cookies, or drizzle extra chocolate syrup to switch up the flavor.
- → Can I use a different cake mix?
Absolutely, any chocolate-flavored cake mix works well as a base for this layered treat.
- → How long will leftovers last?
Store in the refrigerator for up to a week, or freeze slices in an airtight container for up to three months.
- → How do I prevent Oreo topping from getting soggy?
It's best to add crushed Oreos right before serving to maintain their crispy texture on top.
- → Can whipped cream be used instead of whipped topping?
Yes, stabilized whipped cream works as a substitute, but ensure it holds well while chilled.